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Free virtual health workshops!

So, in preparation for changes to um, everything, Kelli is doing some free virtual health workshops this January.

When A Casserole Is Not Enough: Extremely Practical Tips For Building Extended Communities of Care

January 14th at 8 pm ET

WHAT WE’RE GOING TO CHAT ABOUT:

Our nontraditional communities often rely on families of choice, rather than families of origin for social support. However, when we develop serious or chronic illness, the care provided by nontraditional support systems doesn’t always easily mesh with current healthcare and social support systems. This is particularly true if no designated primary caregiver exists, and the person in need of care lives alone. Add in the dominant culture’s excellence at recreating systems of oppression within the healthcare system, and caregiving and care receiving can be challenging, to say the least. We’ll talk about building the existing structures of extended circle caregiving, how to nurture these networks in mutuality, how to deal with the emotional challenges that being a caregiving and a care receiver can bring up and how to find those support folks, especially if you are geographically or otherwise isolated. This very interactive workshop draws on Kelli’s more than twenty years as a community health nurse, her experiences during the early years of the AIDS crisis, and her lived experience as the primary caregiver of two partners who died of cancer, and as well as survivor of a life-threatening post-surgical infection which required many months of community care. Shoutout to the disability justice folks who have been maintaining mutual aid caregiving circles for always!

Emergency! Planning For Unplanned Healthcare

January 18th at 3 PM ET with special guest current ER nurse Harvey Katz and Leah Strock FNP

WHAT WE’RE GOING TO CHAT ABOUT:

In communities traditionally underserved (or worse) by our healthcare systems we are often particularly—and understandably– wary of seeking emergency care, even when care is badly needed. In this interactive workshop, we’ll walk through a visit to the emergency room, talk about general ER infrastructure, and brainstorm/role-playing ways in which we can be empowered to facilitate relatively positive endings to various ER scenarios. We’ll also discuss picking an ER buddy and developing a written ER plan.

If you already know a lot about these subjects, please join us, we need ALL the tips and ALL THE WISDOM!!!!!!!

ALTHOUGH THESE ARE VERY INTENSE SUBJECTS, DON’T FORGET KELLI’S A COMEDIAN AND STORYTELLER IN ADDITION TO BEING A NURSE.. WE WON’T PROMISE IT’LL BE FUN EXACTLY, BUT KELLI WILL DEFINITELY END WITH A KNOCK KNOCK JOKE AND WE’LL BE REMINDED OF THE STRENGTHS OF OUR COMMUNITIES AND WE’LL ALSO BE BUILDING COMMUNITY!

Kelli has some free downloadable health strategy zines that zines and handouts that illustrate her practical, irreverent approach to topics like pap exams, dealing with healthcare trauma, etc. They’re here.

You can register for both/either on this form and we’ll send you the link the day of the event. We’ll be using a paid Zoom, which is the best compromise of accessibility and security we could figure out for now. If you have already voted for a workshop on the form Kelli previously posted, you will automatically be sent a link.

These workshops (and any future ones!) will always be free but they take a lot of resources to make happen. If you’d like and you’ve got it, we’d love for you to support these workshops (or Kelli’s storytelling work with LGBT youth in Florida and Alabama) by donating here.

NYS CRNA Conference!

Has anyone told y’all how great you are? Okay I will. You’re ggggrrrreat (why did I randomly become Tony the Tiger, I’m unsure).

HUMOR STRATEGY BINGO CARD is here:

Write a few words about how you saw/participated in humor strategies, come to the Saturday night show and share one or two items from your card. First person to do this wins a trophy. A personalized trophy. Like you might have gotten at camp if you were really good at swimming or macrame. 

If no one wins Saturday night, email me your completed card and if you’re first…YOU get the trophy!  There are prizes for runner ups too! 

Here are the references and suggestions for further reading.

And then I talked about some lists. Here are the links:

Looking for funny/light things to listen to on your way to work? I’ve got you covered:

Places To Find Workplace Humor That Won’t Land You In Trouble With HR

15 Fun Commute Listens for Nurses, Victim Advocates and Other Folks With Impossible Jobs 

Skeptical That Humor Can’t Be Used To Address Hard Issues- Check Out These Links
Find me on the socials IG, TikTok, Youtube, Facebook

ALSO please check out my substack

All the socials!

Hey there! Here’s how to connect with Kelli on your most-preferred connection vehicle:

IG

TikTok

Youtube

Facebook (Whatever! FB is great for groups)

and yes, LinkedIn

But PLEASE if you want to stay in touch, please subscribe to Kelli’s Substack. It’s only a few clicks more, you get to read (or you have the option of reading, no one is insisting) Kelli’s SUBSTACK ONLY practical tragicomic writing AND if any one specific social site disappears, you’ll still be in contact because Substack actually shares the email addresses of the subscribers with the content creator.

If Substack really isn’t your thing, you can also sign up for the announcement-only email list.

Also, Kelli has a podcast coming soon.

THinC 2024

I had such a great time last week! I was so glad to spend the weekend with y’all!

WANT TO GET IN TOUCH? You can email kellidunham@gmail.com or text 215.964.1963

I have a Substack, the Second Helping Gazette and publish a few times a month with resources on helping helping professionals, well, help. This is a great way to stay in touch! There’s a hilarious practical podcast coming this summer! Subscribe free here.

Want to book me for other trauma informed, kind comic reasons? You can look around the rest of my site for other presentations, workshops, and leadership humor coaching, and also find me on LinkedIn.

You can also follow me on instagram, YouTube, or yes, even Tiktok

Also, this fall I’m opening up an ongoing virtual group called Making It Better. This will be a practical fun supportive space where folks in the helping professions (including a fair number of nurses, it’s looking like) can focus on ways our creative pursuits can help sustain our work. Whether you have a creative outlet (writing? improv? painting? music? synchronized drawing?) that you left behind or need to find one, each meeting we’ll have a discussion, spend some time generating new work and have fun. We’ll also have an (optional but very supportive) virtual performance each quarter so you can invite your coworkers…or your family or your teenage kids, if you’d really to annoy them. You can fill out a short (promise-three questions and one of them is your name) interest indication form here so I can send you an email in the fall with more information.

NYC NFP

Hey there! Here’s a handout that summarizes CLIFFTOP

AND HERE’S A WORKSHEET ON FINDING THE FUNNY IN YOUR NFP NHV DAY

WANT TO GET IN TOUCH? You can email kellidunham@gmail.com or text 215.964.1963

I have a Substack, the Second Helping Gazette and publish a few times a month with resources on helping helping professionals, well, help. This is a great way to stay in touch! There’s a hilarious practical podcast coming this summer! Subscribe free here.

Want to book me for other trauma informed, kind comic reasons? You can look around the rest of my site for other presentations, workshops, and leadership humor coaching, and also find me on LinkedIn.

You can also follow me on instagram, YouTube, or yes, even Tiktok

Finally, this fall I’m opening up an ongoing virtual group called Making It Better. This will be a practical fun supportive space where folks in the helping professions (including a fair number of nurses, it’s looking like) can focus on ways our creative pursuits can help sustain our work. Whether you have a creative outlet (writing? improv? painting? music? synchronized drawing?) that you left behind or need to find one, each meeting we’ll have a discussion, spend some time generating new work and have fun. We’ll also have an (optional but very supportive) virtual performance each quarter so you can invite your coworkers…or your family or your teenage kids, if you’d really to annoy them. You can fill out a short (promise-three questions and one of them is your name) interest indication form here so I can send you an email in the fall with more information.

    NCHFL GRAND ROUNDS

    If you’d like to ask an anonymous question to go into the post event notes or ask a slightly less anonymous question I’ll answer in an email, fill out this google form.

    Current slides below but check back within 48 hours of the presentation for a print friendly summary. This is 147 pages of brightly colored everything, the very opposite of print friendly.

    WANT TO GET IN TOUCH?

    You can email kellidunham@gmail.com or text 215.964.1963

    I have a Substack, the Second Helping Gazette and publish a few times a month with resources on helping helping professionals, well, help. This is a great way to stay in touch! Subscribe free here.

    My live show Second Helping: Two Dead Lovers, Dead Funny will be streaming on May 18th at 4 pm. Very reasonable tickets here.

    Want to book me for other trauma informed, kind comic reasons? You can look around the rest of my site for other presentations, workshops, and leadership humor coaching, and also find me on LinkedIn.

    You can also follow me on instagram, YouTube, or yes, even Tiktok

    Thanks for your support of Second Helping!

    Thanks so much for everyone who has been supportive of this long long long long process of creating Second Helping including:

    Beth Lapides (see producer info, below) 

    Everyone present on Pudding Day

    All the folks who loved Heather and Cheryl 

    Bryn Kelly

    Genne Murphy 

    Jill Uhlfelder 

    Caveat NYC  (with a special thanks to Anne Houston for above and beyond call of duty)

    Stacy Bias

    Turan Ali

    Queer Diary/Bechdel Theater

    Gillian Wilson

    Diva Magazine

    Catherine Murray BBC4

    Amraine Rasool, Carol Purcell & Sally Magnusson, Lynda-Marie at BBC Scotland

    Barbara Carrellas and Kate Bornstein

    Fringe festivals that hosted Second Helping virtually during lockdown: Pittsburgh, Bright Light 

    Barbara Buckley

    Jude Treder-Wolff-Second Stage

    Matilda Davis

    Brian Snyder

    CC Blooms

    PBH Free Fringe

    Justin Allardyce/ Friends at The End in Scotland

    MSP Rona McKay 

    Rebecca Tulley 

    Robin Bady/Badyhouse

    Michele Carlo/Word

    Kevin Allison/Risk

    Michele Jalowski and the Moth 

    ABOUT THE AMAZING PRODUCER-BETH LAPIDES

    Beth Lapides is the creator, host and producer of the long running, critically acclaimed, genre shifting UnCabaret, Amazon, Comedy Central, Comedy World Radio etc. She’sthe creatrix of its spin-off shows Say The Word and The Other Network. Her original audiobook ”So You Need To Decide” was on Vulture’s Best Comedy Books of the Year. She hosted a daily show on Comedy World Radio. She’s been featured on Sex and The City, The History of Comedy on CNN, MTV, Time, NPR etc. Her latest solo show, It’s A Lot is in development. She is a comedy and creativity coach and speaker at places like The Erma Bombeck Institute, Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health and her own Infinite Creator coaching. She’s the recipient of several NEA grants and a graduate of Brown University.

    ABOUT OUR AMAZING OPENER-BETH TONER

    Beth Toner is a nurse, writer, erstwhile theatre major, and nerd who still hasn’t figured out what she wants to be when she grows up. She has spent the last 30 years of her life writing stuff for other people. For the last five, she’s been intermittently obsessed with returning to the stage in community theatre. Now, she’s writing — and performing — for herself. When she’s not working her day job or volunteering at the local free clinic, you can find her trying to decide which crochet project to start (and not finish) next or trekking doggedly up and down hills in a trail race while the younger, faster folks greet her with “good job!” and “on your left!” She’s currently writing Disaster Girl, her one-woman show, which is kind of about her obsession with the Titanic and tornadoes, but also about her family.